You find out a lot about yourself when you are going through something. You find out your threshold for pain, both physical and emotional. You find out who your real friends are. You find out just how much of a punk you are. When you are in the depths of trial and turmoil you learn how good of a decision maker you are because there are some tough decisions to be made. Most importantly you find out what strength you have inside you. When life gets rough you find out exactly what you are made of, be it steel or marshmallow fluff. For better or worse you find out who you really are. Who are you?