This post is from the perspective of an ex-girlfriend who has a friendship with her ex-boyfriend. They worked out all of their issues so they are cool. The ex-girlfriend speaks to him and his wife whenever she runs into them. She has no ill intentions towards them. There are two issues though. The first, is that the ex-boyfriend’s family loves the ex-girlfriend and continuously throws that love in the wife’s face (so wrong). The second problem is that the ex-boyfriend is still harboring feelings for the ex-girlfriend.
The ex-girlfriend thought she was being nice by speaking to them BOTH when she runs into them (which happens way too often). She was informed that she was actually pissing his wife off so she has decided to not speak to them when she sees them from now on.
All the Hated Ladies
(set to Beyonce’s Single Ladies)
All the Hated Ladies (7x)
Now put your hands up
Up in a party
Chillin with everybody
Minding my own business
They walked in
He acted like we weren’t friends
And I’m supposed to ignore this
I speak to them
They speak to me
I have no bad intentions
When he’s with her
We can’t converse
And that don’t make sense to me
The problem isn’t that I speak to him
No the problem isn’t that I speak to him
The real problem is what I mean to him
So it’s better if I just don’t speak to him
(wo oh ooh oh oh ooh oh oh ooh oh oh oh) (2x)
The problem isn’t that I speak to him
No the problem isn’t that I speak to him
Can’t control what I mean to him
Next time we meet I just won’t speak to him
I got ice on my hand
Love from my man
Treat me like I’m his beautiful queen
Dude messed up
She’s the runner up
But I’m in the wrong if I speak
Acting up’s not my mission
Did I mention
He’s married and I’m not trippin
We had our turn
We both lived and learned
So he ain’t got no problem with me
The problem isn’t that I speak to him
No the problem isn’t that I speak to him
The real problem is what I mean to him
So it’s better if I just don’t speak to him
(wo oh ooh oh oh ooh oh oh ooh oh oh oh) (2x)
The problem isn’t that I speak to him
No the problem isn’t that I speak to him
Can’t control what I mean to him
Next time we meet I just won’t speak to him
(wo oh ooh oh oh ooh oh oh ooh oh oh oh) (2x)
Don’t think that I don’t feel for the girl
I’m all up in her world
Seeing me ain’t what she wants
What she prefers
Is for him to ignore me and deplore me and abhor me
Not adore me for infinity and beyond
Don’t want me in his thoughts
Whether I’m friendly or not
If she could
I think she would
Wipe me off
The planet for good
All the hated ladies (7x)
Now put your hands up
(wo oh ooh oh oh ooh oh oh ooh oh oh oh) (2x)
The problem isn’t that I speak to him
No the problem isn’t that I speak to him
The real problem is what I mean to him
So it’s better if I just don’t speak to him
(wo oh ooh)
The problem isn’t that I speak to him
No the problem isn’t that I speak to him
Can’t control what I mean to him
Next time we meet I just won’t speak to him
(wo oh ooh)
Interesting triangle.
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[…] post was inspired by the song “All the Hated Ladies” which I wrote for my “The Lives of Women” series. This song is also set to Beyonce’s Single Ladies. (I really like that song in […]
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